
I've been reading on facebook, blogs, etc. about how so many people don't like Valentine's Day. I totally understand the dislike of the materialized symbols that have overrun the true meaning of the day and all the loud, obnoxious marketing of it all, but I have to admit that I LOVE Valentine's Day. Here is my wrap up on the holiday:
I have loved this day since I can remember. In Elementary school, each kid would make their own mailbox for notes and letters out of a shoe box and decorate it with hearts and xoxox's. I would spend hours decorating my mailbox and making it adorable. I remember hoping and praying everyday for a love note from my crush (or crushes). I think I still have a few of these from 3rd or 4th grade tucked in childhood box :) As a little girl, I loved making Valentines for all my classmates and friends, writing little coded messages for the special few whom I admired and gluing the candy hearts onto each one. The air about Valentines Day was so fun and suspenseful and exciting to me. Thinking about it makes me smile.
As I got older, some Valentine Days were really, really awful. There were two Valentine Days in college that fall into the "10 worst days of my life" category, where all my friends and roommates were getting flowers and chocolates and balloons from their admirers and the lame boy that I had been dating for 4 months did nothing. So I went through the "I hate Valentine's Day" period, because I did hate it. It wasn't fun. It's in the past, and seriously, I'm not bitter about all that stuff. It doesn't matter to me much anymore.
But I love Valentine's Day because it is about love and taking time to communicate that love to those who are important to you. Part of loving someone is knowing how THEY want you to express that to them and figuring that out is one of the most important things to learn while on earth- understanding people and what makes them happy. Communicating that love is so, so important. Just assuming someone knows is silly.
When Rob and I fell in love, I thought he would turn into a Sara mind-reader or something. I would get frustrated when he couldn't understand why I was feeling what I was feeling, and I'd blame him! That's what I thought love was. So the journey of marriage continues for us and we are still trying to work out the kinks. I have to say, though, we've worked very hard on communication and expressing our love to one another through actions and words, and part of that was me opening my mouth and very plainly saying "I'd like you to bring me home flowers every so often. That would mean alot to me". And cute Robbie, now brings me home flowers every so often :)
Life is really busy at this time in my life and even though Rob and I tell one another multiple times a day that we love each other, we don't get the chance to go out on a date very often or do some of the things for one another that we used to. So I love Valentine's Day because it helps me just slow down and really think about how much I love Rob and then do something about it!
We went to a play last weekend and out to our favorite restaurant- Bizarro's in Wallingford. And this Saturday we went down to Pike's Place and I got to pick out some lovely tulips and we exchanged love notes (which is STILL my favorite part!). I love my Robbie!